Wednesday, May 27, 2015

You Are What You Think, a Reflection on Being a Better Me.


“Your beliefs become your thoughts, Your thoughts become your words, Your words become your actions, Your actions become your habits, Your habits become your values, Your values become your destiny.”
― Mahatma Gandhi

I am sure that if you are reading this blog post by me, George L. Rosario then you are a reader. After all, I am relatively unknown in the world of literature (for now), and yet here you are, spending time reading my humble post. Being that you are a reader, I can almost bet that you have either heard of or read The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. While her ideas are interesting, by her own admission they are not new. Religious people, philosophers and even scientists have spent centuries studying this principal.

“The mind is everything. What you think you become.”
― Buddha

Today I make a commitment to create a better world by working on me. Some people say that sounds a bit pretentious, as if the world’s success relies solely on my own success. I say it does! A good friend told me that I was making it sound as if the world would be worthless without me. I say it would! I am in no way saying that I am the only one responsible for taking care of this world. I am not! But I do believe that if I strive to become a better, more ethical person each day, our world will be better for it. If believe that controlling my thoughts and ideas will make this all possible. I believe that if everyone makes the same commitment, we will enjoy a greater existence.

”What soever a man soweth that shall he also reap. You sow an act, you reap a habit (acts repeated constitute habits); you sow a habit, you reap a character; you sow a character, you reap a destiny. Let them, he said, cultivate habits of industry,application, and order, and they might rely upon it, with God’s blessing, they would succeed in life."
– (Mr. Wiseman, 1856)

The truth is that we are all responsible for our world. We are all responsible for our industry. We are all responsible for our survival. We are all responsible for the sanity and sanctity of this world. We are all responsible for feeding, sheltering and clothing each other. We are all responsible for every war ever fought, every war that has yet to be fought and every treaty that ends that war. We are responsible because if we all make a commitment to better the world by bettering ourselves, individually, then we will all benefit. All of it starts with a single thought or idea.

While so many men (and women) in power blame religion, politics, government, economics, gender, sexual orientation, age, race, sociology, etc, for the world’s problems, some of us are actually looking inward. The truth is that if everyone in this world looked internally at their ethical make-up, we would not have any wars, hunger, homelessness, poverty, suffering or untimely death. If everyone took the time to make ourselves better, more ethical, more loving people, the world would have never known an Adolf Hitler, Mao Zedong, Joseph Stalin, or all other mass murders that have walked the face of our world. We are all responsible for looking inside and working on creating a better "ME" so that we can all benefit. All of it starts with a single thought of idea.

Today I am asking everyone to stop using religion, economics, race, age, sexual orientation, government, gender, ethnicity, place of origin, or the media to spread your hate. We are living in the greatest and the worst times. Our technological advances have made our lives easier than ever. Our medical advances have made our lives healthier than ever. Our advances in communications have made our lives more connected than ever. So why are so many people using these great advances to separate themselves from others? Why? Because too many of us do not accept accountability for the problems of the world we are in. We don't accept that our actions today will affect the world tomorrow, just as the actions of yesterday have affected us today.

“I am who I am today because of the choices I made yesterday.”
— Eleanor Roosevelt

But it doesn’t stop there! Too many of us forget that we are responsible for our own destiny. We blame everyone around us for our own shortcomings. Too often we hear someone say, “I don’t have money in the bank because they never gave me a shot”, or “I didn’t succeed because they stopped me” or “they did this to me.” Who or what is this “they” entity these people refer to? This is an excuse that goes beyond race, religion, location, creed, gender, sexual orientation, marital status, political affiliation, ethnicity, origin, etc.When we focus all our energy on finding blame in others, we do very little to fix that which needs fixing within ourselves. We blame the effect, rather than correct the cause.

“Watch your thoughts for they become words,watch your words for they become actions,watch your actions, for they become habits,watch your habits for they become your character,watch your character for it becomes your destiny.”
—Ralph Waldo Emerson

So today I am making a commitment to the world by working on me. I truly believe that God wants me to be a better George L. Rosario. The world deserves a better George L. Rosario. My parents dreamed of a better George L. Rosario. Tina deserves a better George L. Rosario. My children need a better George L.Rosario. My grandchildren will someday want and expect a better George L. Rosario. The real estate industry demands a better and more ethical George L. Rosario. I need to do the right thing when being a son, being a husband, raising my children, helping to raise my grandchildren, volunteering in my community, selling a home in New York, etc.

“Quality is not an act, it is a habit.”
— Aristotle

"If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thing, you're right.”
— Henry Ford



I end with a quote that I grew up listening to. My grandmother used to say it all the time. My mother too. It's something that has stayed with me.

"As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he."
Proverbs 23:7




Some helpful references and links:

1856 August 27, The Essex Standard, and General Advertiser for the Eastern Counties, Kelvedon School, (Mr Wiseman speaking), Quote Page 2, Column 6, Colchester, England. (19th Century British Library Newspapers: Part II)

2009, Developing Habits of Mind in Elementary Schools: An ASCD Action Tool by Karen Boyes and Graham C. Watts, (Epigraph to chapter: School Leaders Building Commitment), Quote Page 297, ASCD, Alexandria, Virginia.

http://lightarrow.com/five-motivational-quotes-to-inspire-you-to-build-good-habits
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